Psychology
Anger: when it becomes a problem and how to manage it
Anger is a normal emotion. It becomes a problem when it is frequent, intense or harmful — and venting it tends to make it worse, not better.
27 Sept 20269 min read
Pronounced hy-per-VIJ-uh-lunss
Also known as Hyperarousal, Always on edge, Easily startled
Being constantly on guard and scanning for danger even when safe — jumpy, easily startled and unable to relax. It is a common part of PTSD and anxiety.
In Psychology
Hypervigilance is a state of being permanently on alert: watching the door, sitting with your back to the wall, jumping at loud noises, lying awake listening. The body's threat system, including the and the , stays switched on after the danger has passed.
After a frightening event — a blast, a robbery, a road accident, violence at home — some weeks of this are a normal reaction. When it lasts beyond about a month and comes with , and poor sleep, it is one of the core signs of . It also appears in disorders.
It is exhausting, and poor sleep, irritability and poor concentration usually follow. Trauma-focused and are the main treatments; slow breathing and grounding exercises can settle the body in the moment.
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